Rit & me...

After getting smitten by the strong 'Rit' influence 3 years back, I am now getting back to my original self. One importnt realization is that no matter to what extent you try to imitate a person unconsciously, your core personality would never change.
I am happy to have become more practical. I no more lament over trivial issues and believe in moving ahead in life. I no more cling on to certain relationships that i wanted to save. I have set them free thinking that they would return if destined to.
But undoubtedly, Rit has been a Change Leader for me. She has been my role model for handling some of the most precarious situations in my life till date. Her devotion to the values and principles in life makes her special to me. And above all, she taught me the meaning of friendship and relationships. I learnt to enjoy life from her. She is one person you cannot ignore. She may come across as a silly girl but as you start knowing her, her charm would leave you dazed. At times she is a kid and on some occaions you would find a mature girl taking her stand. During college days, I thought she should have been a species of the 'satyuga'! But now even she has adapted herself to the rules of the modern world.
I think I have never been able to do much for her as a friend as compared to what she has done for me. And I don't have high expectations of me in future too. All I know is that I love her.
I would be indebted to this lady forever..I hope I never lose her!

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