Just a bad day!!

Sometimes I feel I am good for nothing. I can’t help my friends the way and the extent to which they want me to. I am not able to meet the expectations of my parents. I don’t know how to behave with people. I don’t know the right things which should be said/done on right occasions. I am not good at anything. I am not even doing justice to myself. I am not disciplined enough to pursue my hobbies.

People don’t respect me for what I am and want me to be someone else. Why should I pretend to be someone else when I am not…? Why don’t people let me be what I am. Why should I adapt myself all the time to others’ wish? Can’t I live in peace without worrying about what other people might think?

Am I being true to anyone? Or for that matter even to my own soul? I pretend to abide by my ethics but I don’t even have the guts to stick to what I believe in. Why am I so weak? Why don’t I behave in a manner that commands respect? Why do I get influenced so much by what others have to say/think about me?

Why am I so full of self doubts? Nothing seems to be going right at times. Am I the only one like this??

Comments

Aritri Chakrabarty said…
just 1 thing deepa,rest assured you are not the only one like this. i know atleast of 1 person who's in d same boat-myself :)
11:20 AM
lazydeeps said…
thanks aritri!!
7:10 AM
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